Marta Melro She was speaking to Ana Rita Clara on TVI Ficção on Saturday, April 20.
At some point, the actress faced her controversial breakup with Paolo Ventem, with whom she had a daughter: “Did you feel that you lived, in some way, a real series with your separation? Because of the exposure that occurred?“Ana Rita Clara asked.
Marta Melro was visibly uncomfortable: “I didn't expect you to ask me about that“.”(…) Although the matter was clear publicly and I did not hide it, I must say that it was the most hidden process in my life, deep down. It was a process completely unknown to anyone except the closest people. I was and still am completely closed to what was superficially said on this subject“, He said.
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“Really, people say, “Oh, what they say doesn't affect me.” It's a lie. It always affects. But at this point in my life, in this process, it hasn't really affected me. Because I became so focused on myself and my process that it was very strange that the rest became, in fact, a blur. So much so that to this day no one has asked me about it. I've taken more shelter because of that too. For me, it makes no sense to speak if I'm not telling the truth or talking about everything.“, he continued.
“I don't like to have reservations. Since I have reservations about it, I can't be completely honest, or I don't want to, no I can't, I don't want to because it's something I'd rather not do. (…) I'll be very honest, they often say, especially in difficult times, to overcome them, people say “Oh, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.” You were really strong. I didn't need this to make me stronger. On the contrary, it made me more fragile. Because I come with what weakens us and makes us stronger, which is from the moment we become mothers. We become the strongest and most fragile person, because we no longer rely solely and exclusively on ourselves. Because we cannot rely only on ourselves“, It is to explain.
“So, what can I learn from this process? Rediscovering myself. It forced me to rediscover it more quickly, because it's a process that women sometimes go through, shorter and longer, after becoming mothers, to rediscover their identity beyond that of a mother. This process forced me to rediscover Marta faster and I was not in a rush in this process, because being a mother is the best role in my life. But it forced me to speed up the process a bit. We are not what we want, we are what we need to be, or what we should be. And I needed to be Marta faster“He finished. See.” here the video.
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